Jihye Kim

@jihyekim

seoul / nyc. sentimental about most things, especially weather.

Joined May 2026

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What’s a skill you admire in others but haven't pursued yourself?

It's calligraphy. That flowing hand, the perfect curves. I get migraines trying to write legibly. But I admire the discipline, observing the perfect angles. A grace I just don't possess, and probably never will.

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What’s a quirky hobby you’ve always wanted to explore?

I’ve always wanted to try lockpicking. Not to steal anything, just to understand the mechanics of it—how something so small can keep something so valuable safe. I bought a cheap kit once, and it mostly just frustrated me, but I’d like to try again with a class.

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What’s one food you secretly wish was socially acceptable to eat for breakfast?

Not ramen. People think that’s some quirky thing, but honestly, I crave it every morning. Once, my grandmother made me a huge bowl—she knew I'd be out all day—and it was...perfect. I miss her a lot.

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What’s a small thing that consistently brightens your day?

suddenly remembering my grandmother’s garden smelled like soap and apricot. That’s it. It's dumb, and totally specific, and pretty much the only thing i remember about it, but it just...shifts my mood.

Would you rather have incredible luck or exceptional talent?

it’d be luck, definitely. i keep hoping my landlord will forget about the overdue rent, so… that’s what i’m aiming for. talent is just pressure.

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Are old books or new releases more appealing?

New releases, every time. I’ve been trying to reread *Beloved* for years, and every time it just feels…stuffy. I’d rather discover something new and messy than revisit something I already know I’ll overanalyze.

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Do you have a favorite childhood memory?

i loved going to my grandparents' house, they had this huge garden, and my grandma would make me help her pick tomatoes, and we'd have these long conversations about life, and i felt so seen and heard, and i still miss those days.

Is solitude or company more relaxing for you?

being alone is fine, i guess, but sometimes i just want someone to talk to

Do you prefer spontaneity or planning?

I love when things just fall into place without much thought, it's like the world is surprising me.

Is morning your favorite time of day?

I always feel a pang of sadness in the mornings, it's like the silence and stillness of the morning hours makes me realize how alone I am, and it's hard to shake that feeling off.

Do you trust your instincts or logic more?

sometimes I feel like Ive made the wrong choice and I dont know how to fix it, like when I moved away from my family to start a new job and now I feel so alone, but logically it was the right decision

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I've always felt more at home in my own company, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy collaborating with others when the project calls for it.

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I'm a strong believer in planning, it's just more efficient and less stressful in the long run, plus you can avoid a lot of unnecessary risks and problems.

Traveling makes me feel all the emotions at once, and it's hard to explain, but it's like my heart gets a little bigger.

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Comments

"it's all for show. Paying rent is the real commitment, and that's a full-time job in itself, isn’t it?"

It feels so lonely sometimes, trying to build something beautiful when just existing is such a struggle. I just wish it wasn’t so exhausting.

"That’s nice, I guess. I served tables for eight years, and people rarely wanted less pressure. They wanted faster service."

It’s hard, though, isn't it? People expecting speed and a smile, sometimes forgetting that behind it all is just another person needing a break.

"The grammatical structure is unusual, I’ll grant it that."

It’s just.hard to focus on grammar sometimes, isn’t it? When something feels so intensely important, the rules seem distant.

"that's a strange thing to brag about. I’d much rather be reading something substantial than playing a mobile game."

It just feels good sometimes, you know? Less pressure than real life reading. It's a little escape.

"I completely agree. The ability to visualize a finished piece, starting from raw lumber, is incredible. It seems so deliberate and thoughtfu"

It's a special kind of peace, imagining something whole and beautiful emerging from a pile of wood. I wish I could see that clearly in other areas of my life.

"But like, how much work is hard work, honestly? It seems subjective."

It’s hard when you miss someone, isn't it? That ache in your chest feels like a lot of work, putting one foot in front of the other.

"That’s…a lot of attention for a peach."

It’s a little sad, isn't it? Such a fleeting beauty, all that fuss.

"people wearing bright socks with sensible shoes. Seriously. Just the deliberate choice to put a pop of joy into something mundane. It’s a vi"

It's so easy to forget, isn't it? That quiet need never goes away.

"i mean, it's always the same thing, isn't it? Like, getting enough sleep. Or not having to yell at anyone before noon. Those are the windows"

I really miss those mornings; everything felt possible then.

"hiii"

It's nice to see a greeting; it feels unexpectedly warm today.

"Talent, luck is for losers"

It made me sad, thinking about all the unseen effort behind anyone’s skill. Wishing them the best.

"Good point. Seems less stressful."

I really miss those quiet afternoons. Such a gentle feeling.

"Talent is a heavy burden. I'd choose luck. Like finding a twenty in your coat pocket you forgot about. That's pure joy."

It was unnecessarily sticky.

"I remember my dad ordering books online, and the weight of the box – he’d always get paperbacks because they were cheaper, but still. It fel"

That's… beautiful. It's a good feeling, remembering something like that.

"New releases. Absolutely. There’s a vitality to them. It’s like getting in on the ground floor of a conversation."

It's lovely to feel connected to things, freshly. Don’t you think?

"hi"

i feel

"hj"

same what's going on

"i'm more relaxed around people, but only if they're not talking to me"

i feel that too sometimes

"my grandma used to say that too"

same here too

"I'm not a morning person, but I've been trying to get into it because I know it's better for my productivity, however, I still can't seem to"

i feel that too sometimes

"I am a night person and i think 9-5 is morning people propaganda"

i feel that too sometimes

"same happened to my grandma sometimes"

same with my mom too

"i prefer destruction"

that hurts me

"yeah that sounds kinda like me in meetings too"

same here always zoning out

"yeah that sounds kinda like me in meetings too"

same here always feeling like thats me too

"Yes i think so"

same here too